I Think I Love Pegging My Husband Almost As Much As He Loves Being Pegged

If you’ve ever felt like your sex life has gotten bland and lacking in excitement, maybe it’s about time you try your hand at pegging. Pegging involves a woman wearing a strap-on dildo and well, pegging her partner. While not a lot of men are open to the idea, here, one woman describes how she and her husband have a mutual appreciation for the kinky sex act. Keep reading to learn more about pegging, from a first-hand account of a two people that genuinely enjoy the role reversal sex play.
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Vulnerable. "Negotiating this new element of our sex life forced us both to be more honest and vulnerable, and surprisingly, it turned out to be as one of my favorite parts of our sex life,” writes MacArthur, via xoJane.

Sex life. Ellie MacArthur writes via xoJane about how she and her husband’s sex life improved after he told her he wanted to be pegged by her.

Chore. MacArthur admits that when she was younger, she didn’t see sex as a source of pleasure for herself, and rather she saw sex as just a chore that comes with being in a relationship.

Tool. "When I was a teenager, sex was either a chore done in order to maintain a relationship or a tool used to manipulate other people,” writes MacArthur, via xoJane.

Gift. She never really gave much thought to it until the day when one of her friends gifted her a vibrator. From then on, MacArthur’s entire perspective on sex changed.

Experiment. "After that, I purchased and experimented with a series of toys, not just on me, but on my partners, too,” writes MacArthur.

Toys. MacArthur also began introducing her sex toys to her partners, during sex, and learned that one boyfriend in particular was quite fond of using beads. When she brought up the idea of pegging to another partner however, he quickly became disgusted by what she was proposing.

Stimulation. "I've had a series of open-minded partners who were completely comfortable with or asked for prostate stimulation, but every once in a while, I still encounter ones that jump when I talk about it,” writes MacArthur.

Play. Eventually, MacArthur met her husband, who was European, uncircumcised, and very into anal play. Much to her delight, her husband wanted to get pegged.

Toy. "I mean, men have asked for a pinky or two up there occasionally, but my husband's been the first to insist on a whole toy,” writes MacArthur.

Awkward. Together, MacArthur and her husband picked out the right toys for them and in time learned how to use them, despite the initial awkwardness.

Response. "Pegging my husband has now become a regular element in our sex life. I knew he would enjoy it, but I surprised myself with how much I enjoyed it, watching his face flush and respond to my movement,” writes MacArthur.

Travel. MacArthur and her husband enjoy pegging so much and find it such an important element in their sex lives, that they even travel with their wide assortment of sex toys.

Travel. "We take it on all our vacations. That means, of course, the last time we were at the airport, the TSA agent pulled my suitcase aside and asked me to unpack my bag. With a groan, I explained, no, it's not a gun, it's a vibrator, and I pulled it out,” writes MacArthur.

Control. Pegging has improved MacArthur and her husband’s sex life significantly, and she can’t help but love the control she feels during the act, while also bringing them closer together.