Embrace. “When im getting rode and my SO knows she is about to c*m she lays her chest on mine and we embrace like a bada** hug. This gives me an arm over one of her shoulders that lets me really ... "throw" her her down on my d***. A. Its deep. B. I know whats coming. I usually just let it all go and we come within seconds of each other. Or I let my kegels shine. Just barely holding on to my sanity until she starts screaming and that way its literally a second a part. I can count on one hand how many times we haven't came at the same time. It's an awesome thing to share,” says Reddit user akbored.
Control. “I control my climax. I can feel and hear when she starts getting close, I can feel and hear when she starts to climax, and then allow myself to finish at the same time,” says an anonymous Reddit user.
Pace. “My husband and I have had simultaneous orgasms for almost 14 years now. He is usually the one in charge of pacing, and adjusts his level of excitement depending on how close I am. We both tend to let the energy slowly build and really float in how amazing everything feels. I can (and have) been pushed over the edge knowing he's about to cum, but I usually start first. I often tell him I'm coming (or I'm about to), and he is a few seconds behind me. The other day he said it's cool that my orgasms last as long as they do because I start first and end last,” says Reddit user couldbedreaming.
Timing. ”When I'm with my girlfriend, I usually go for about a minute and have to stop for 10-15 seconds for a while, I've reached the point where i can come if I want to, but I hold off so she can come some more. After 2-3 of these I don't have to stop very much anymore, but I'm still right at at the brink. If I time it right, she'll start coming and I'll pick up the pace until she comes and then the combination of her contractions and me knowing that I'm making her come so hard makes me finish as well,” says an anonymous Reddit user.
Chemistry. “With an ex, it just happened. Almost every time, for a few years. It excited me so much when she'd get there that I'd finish right then, and she said the same thing happened to her. When it was 'on,' we had uncommonly good chemistry. I've had a few partners since then and nothing has come close to that natural, no-need-for-discussion synchronization,” says Reddit user marius_de_Frejus.
Holding back. “Most people I know who do, it's simply because the man waits for the woman to come and then he comes as well. So basically you're holding back until she orgasms,” says Reddit user j-jazz.
Over the edge. ”We get close together and generally get off to the other getting off. Maybe she's riding me and we're both getting very close one of us starts orgasming and the other feels it happening and that pushes them over the edge. Usually like that,” says Reddit user leonprimrose.
Trigger. “Her orgasm triggers mine. The problem is that she can orgasm in less than a minute, which means I orgasm in less than a minute. The very sound of her building up to climax sends me over the edge,” says Reddit user klankaklank.
Cues. “It's just about timing, really. My boyfriend and I know each others cues, and verbalize when we're getting close. Also, when the first person orgasms, it often pushes the other to,” says Reddit user roboeyes.
Focus. “I try to focus on something else in the back of my mind. I like to pay more attention to the music that's playing, or my movements, rather than on her, until she tells me she's about to come. Then I focus every ounce of attention and energy on her. It's tough, and it will take a lot of practice, but it can happen,” says an anonymous Reddit user.
Edging. “For me it's always boiled down to edging. If my girlfriend is going to orgasm faster (And she can't have multiples, or at least not easily) then I will get her close and keep her there while I work on my own. Or vice versa,” says Reddit user aurrors.
Noises. “This happens with me and my SO all the time. The way he feels inside me as he's about to c*m, the noises he makes, the way he squeezes me, they way his breathing changes... all of those things turn me on so much that it's very common for me to c*m when he c*ms,” says Reddit user shutup_iknow.
Domino effect. ”We get a lot of pleasure from seeing the other enjoying themselves, so if one person starts coming, then the other kind of gets pulled along with them. It's a kind of domino effect. Plus when she's coming, she squeezes incredibly hard, so that usually pushes him over the edge. He gets harder, bigger and more insistent when he's coming, and that pushes her over the edge,” says Reddit user friskyduo.
Magic. ”It is a magical experience. Happens to me and my SO every few times or so. Typically after I've already c*m and he's on top getting ready to finish. He starts thrusting so hard and deep, there's something primal about it that just makes me need to c*m. Plus seeing him get close and hearing the grunts. It's all very sexy,” says Reddit user snogboxx.
One after the other. “My orgasm makes her c*m, and her's makes me. Sometimes both at the same time, sometimes one before the other, but generally within seconds of each other,” says Reddit user the bestwifeshusband.
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