Friday, November 29, 2019
Why masturbation is the best way to discover your body
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7 reasons why you should be having sex during the week
The love affair you have with your bed is unlike any other - your favourite hello and your hardest goodbye; this is especially true of during a working week. Make the most of your precious time between the sheets and sacrifice a few zee’s for mind-blowing OH’s!
With our 7 great reasons to have weekdays sex, sleep might just be taking the backseat.
In the morning
Set your alarm for a few minutes earlier and benefit from the ultimate way to wake up.
IT COUNTS AS A MORNING WORK OUT
Ditch the gym and use your time much more wisely.
Get your work out in in the bedroom.
Put in work and get your heart racing for a daily dose of cardio without even leaving the house.
IT BOOSTS YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM
Orgasms increase the circulation and levels of antibodies in your system which makes your immunity stronger.
Keep catching coughs and colds during winter? Fend off the train germs with a quick session.
IT MAKES YOU HAPPIER THROUGHOUT YOUR DAY
Reaching orgasm releases oxytocin, a powerful hormone known to lower cortisol concentrations which counteract anxiety and depression. Take your mind away from daily pressures and focus on a sexy fantasy and enjoy some escapism.
Revel in the feel-good hormones throughout the day and let you mind wander back to your morning antics.
YOU’LL LOOK AS GOOD AS YOU FEEL
Ditch the shiny hair and complexion pills and reach for the lube. Heard of post coital glow? This is down to the increase in DHEA levels in the body and that magic oxytocin. Those fantastic feel-good hormones also lower inflammation and spots; plus the increase in blood flow increases the level of water transferred to your skin, making your hair gorgeous and glowy!
Squeeze in a morning session and reap the rewards during your day.
In the evening
After a long day at the office, sex may not be top of your to-do list but by making the time for an evening encounter, you can reap many rewards.
IT HELPS YOU TO DE-STRESS
Still feeling stressed out after your day? Unwind with a great sex session.
Forget the wine, orgasms are more effective at tackling stress. Reaching orgasm releases oxytocin, a powerful hormone known to lower cortisol concentrations which counteract anxiety and depression and help you to de-stress. Take your mind away from daily pressures and focus on a sexy fantasy and enjoy some escapism.
IT HELPS YOU SLEEP
Struggling to get to sleep? Sex is much better than counting sheep.
The release of prolactin makes you sleepy after climax, which is why a lot of us fall asleep straight after sex.
So, take a few minutes to get your kicks and prepare to sleep like an angel.
IT GIVES YOU A GREAT REASON TO GO HOME
Make a conscious effort to keep the spark alive by scheduling evening dates with your lover.
It doesn’t have to be anything fancy – just a dinner at home together and a sexy session is enough to ensure you get quality time and neither of you spend your downtime working overtime.
By making time for sex and each other in this way, you’ll ensure that your relationship always feels like a priority.
Thursday, November 28, 2019
Bikini wax improves prowess in the bedroom, says Eva
Eva Longoria says her Brazilian wax boosts her sex life. The Desperate Housewives beauty, who is dating basketball star Tony
Parker, claims the extreme bikini wax is worth the pain - because it
improves her prowess in the bedroom.
She revealed to America's Cosmopolitan magazine: "It makes sex better. "Believe me, the first time I did it, the technician did half, and I was like 'Stop!' She said, 'Sit down, I have to finish.' But then it gets easier. The more you do it, the less hair grows back. But yeah, I love it. I swear by it.
"Every woman should try a Brazilian wax once. And then the sex they have afterwards will make them keep coming back."
Eva, who plays cheating Gabrielle Solis in the hit show, recently confessed she didn't have an orgasm until she was 26. The 30-year-old beauty revealed: "I didn't have my first one until I was
twenty-six.
It was that recent. Before that it was like, 'I think I did.'
"But when I finally did have one, I was like, 'What's going on with my body? Oh, my God!!!!!'"
Housewife Eva treats friends to vibrating birthday gifts
Eva Longoria treats all her girlfriends to a vibrator on their birthday.
The Desperate Housewives star claims the greatest gift for any woman is learning how to pleasure herself and insists she is happy to give electronic aids to her friends to help them discover themselves sexually.
The sexy actress, who famously said she didn't have an orgasm until she used a vibrator, revealed: "After I spoke openly about vibrators I literally got boxes and boxes of free sex toys sent to me. So I was constantly giving them away.
"Even before that I'd give them to girlfriends for their birthdays and
they'd be so excited."
Eva insists learning what pleases you sexually while experimenting on your own can only lead to a better sex life with your husband or boyfriend.
She added to Cosmopolitan magazine: "You get better sex when you know your own body. How can you expect a man to know your body when you don't know what pleases you?"
Wednesday, November 27, 2019
Women's top 10 sex fantasies
Sexual fantasies can be incredibly powerful. Consider, for instance, the fantasy orgasm - in which a person is able to reach an orgasm purely by fantasizing.
For those of us who have never experienced it, the concept - first documented in 1992 - proves that when it comes to sexual release, the imagination can be as powerful as actual touch.
Yet you may well wonder why people need to fantasise if they are already enjoying good sex with their partner. The evidence suggests that once settled into a relationship and the spark of lust has worn off, the majority of people do not get their sexual turn-ons from their partner, according to UK-based sex and relationships writer Tracey Cox.
Many married women use sexual fantasies to become aroused and to reach an orgasm in sex with their spouse, irrespective of how good their lovemaking was, Cox says. In fact, for women fantasies are the equivalent of a vibrator for the mind - in one quick and easy step they can convert so-so sex to mind-blowingly orgasmic sex.
If you're wondering what your lover is contemplating when she looks distant during sex, it's quite possible she may be lost in one of these scenarios…
Top 10 female sexual fantasies:
10. A sex worker being paid to perform all manner of sinful sex acts on random strangers.
9. Being completely irresistible to men, especially ones who are highly desirable to her and who, of course, fling themselves at her.
8. Raunchy sex with a nameless, faceless, no-strings-attached stranger.
7. Receiving expert oral sex in public places, like under her desk at work or under the table in a restaurant - and not being caught.
6. Sex with a celebrity (Jamie Foxx, Brad Pitt, Vin Diesel, Justin Bieber, etc.)
5. A threesome with two men who adore her body and can't get enough of her.
4. Sex with a hunky colleague, especially one who is “unavailable” or in a position of authority.
3. Sex with a woman, not necessarily because she's lesbian but because many women are bi-curious.
2. Sex with a man who is not her partner - especially a friend or a friend's partner.
1. Anticipating sex with her current partner or a former lover (and it goes without saying that most men would prefer their lovers to fantasise only about them).
But before you endure pangs of jealousy or anxiety, take heart: your lover is not necessarily planning to indulge her fantasies in real life. The reality is that most women would never want to actually experience what they fantasize about - especially if you consider that in this “safe” context many women indulge their dark side with rape fantasies or anonymous sex with a group of men.
The point is that it's safe to imagine all sorts of lusty scenarios to get aroused without seeking to acting them out. If you look at sexual fantasies in this light, “cheating” in our heads can help to keep our sex lives more exciting and ultimately, more satisfying. - IOL
Use our comment form below to tell us which movie star you fantasise about...
Men DO fake orgasms - new book
London - It has long been known that women can be guilty of faking the throes of passion in the bedroom, but a surprising number of men feign orgasms too, according to research carried out by a Harvard academic.
In his new book Why Men Fake it: The Totally Unexpected Truth, clinical professor of urology Dr Abraham Morgentaler, recounts numerous stories of men confessing that they pretend to climax.
But the biggest shock was their reasoning.
“The big surprise to me when I started doing this work 25 years ago is that once a man is in a relationship, he seems to care more about his partner than himself,” said Morgentaler.
“For every man who behaves badly, I can give you 10 who are dedicated and thoughtful and doing the best they know how to be a man and a solid partner.”
It may seem unbelievable – not to mention physically impossible – but it is indeed possible for men to fake an orgasm, although quite how they do this is kept under wraps by Morgentaler.
Morgentaler’s book paints a picture of a gender who are anxious about their erections, feel pressured into having sex and are concerned about their partner’s pleasure.
A recent study from the University of Kansas found that 70 percent of women and 30 percent of men admitted faking orgasms.
In the study, both sexes gave the same reasons for pretending – a partner’s orgasm was imminent so they felt under pressure to climax.
The report said: “The emphasis on men’s ability to give their partners “earth-shaking orgasms” sometimes leads both women and men to pretend orgasm to meet these expectations.”
Morgentaler says another reason for the rise in faked orgasms is down to the rapid change in gender identity across society, which has led many men to suffer a crisis of confidence about their masculinity.
He cites the case of a 27-year-old paraplegic who can’t feel or move anything from the waist down.
“I treat him so that he can have sex, and he comes back and is totally thrilled. His whole personality is different. He says: ‘It’s fantastic. I feel like a man again.’ But here’s the thing: He feels nothing down there.”
Morgentaler explains that the patient feels good about himself as a man – not because he’s getting pleasurable sensations from sex, but because he is able to satisfy his wife.
He adds that until around 60 years ago, having sex was understood as a women’s duty rather than something she should enjoy.
But now women expect to be pleasured.
He illustrates his point with a patient who suffered with erectile dysfunction and was concerned he would never be able to find a partner because, he said: “What woman would want to be with a guy that can’t satisfy her?”
Tuesday, November 26, 2019
Wanted: Women to test the 'orgasmatron'
Paris - American doctors are casting around for female volunteers to test an "Orgasmatron," an implanted device that will trigger instant ecstasy, the weekly British magazine New Scientist reports in next Saturday's issue.
The innovation was accidentally discovered more than two years ago, when a surgeon conducted a routine pain-relief operation on a woman.
The procedure entails inserting two electrodes into spine and applying tiny pulses of electricity. Patients are conscious throughout the operation so that they can say when they feel less pain.
In this case, the woman had a spontaneous orgasm, and that prompted the surgeon, pain specialist Stuart Meloy, to take the idea further.
He found that it worked so well for women who had chronic sex problems that he patented it as a possible treatment for female sexual dysfunction.
He has now received approval from the United States Food and Drug Administration (FDA) to test a $13 000 (about R100 000) orgasm-giving device about the size of a heart pacemaker.
In the first stage of the trial, wires connected to a battery pack are inserted through the skin and into the woman's spinal cord, a procedure that Meloy says is no riskier than having an epidural.
In the second stage, a self-contained device will be implanted beneath the skin and can be switched on and off with a remote control.
So far only one woman has completed the first stage of the trial, and another is about to be signed up. Eight more are needed.
"I thought people would be beating my door down to be part of the trial," a disappointed Meloy told New Scientist. "But so far I am struggling to find people."
Meloy's approach has run into hostility among some sex therapists, who say sexual dysfunction in women is usually caused by psychological factors and point to "non-invasive" methods, such as a vibrator, for providing an orgasm. - Sapa-AFP
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