You’ll get more in return. You more you give, the more you get — and it’s true. If you’re showing someone that you’re willing to do more for them, then they’re more than likely going to try returning the favor.
You’ll get a better reputation. Assuming you’re single, you don’t want to be known as the person who doesn’t give a sh*t. So, give a sh*t. If you want people to sleep with you, you’ll learn how to be less selfish. Hopefully.
You’ll have a more satisfying sexual experience. When everyone’s having a good time, it’s only natural that the overall experience is going to be far more satisfying than if only of you was truly happy. It’ll feel good knowing that your partner is feeling just as good as you are.
It won’t feel like a wasted opportunity. Sex can be so much more amazing than something allow it to be. So if you’re willing to be more generous, then you’ll start to notice how satisfying it can be. Otherwise, it’ll just feel wasted.
You’ll learn something. Even if you’ve studied books on sex for your entire life, you’ll still never truly understand it all until you’ve had firsthand experience. So the more generous you are in bed, the more likely you are to learn a thing or two that you otherwise would have never known.
This isn’t all about you. If you want to jerk off, then by all means — there’s the door. But this isn’t masturbation. This is sex. You’re not just trying to get off, you’re trying to get someone else off, too. So act like it!
Your partner deserves as much. If you think so little of your partner that you’re unwilling to budge in terms of being sexually generous, then maybe you don’t deserve them. Your partner ought to be getting just as much as you are.
Sex is better when it’s a reciprocal experience. Sex is like ping pong. If you don’t have a partner, you’re not going to get the ball back, and the game is wasted. If you want to bring into the argument that you can technically play ping pong against a wall, then you’re pretty much describing masturbation.
It teaches humility. If you’re a little selfish, that’s OK. It’s human nature to be selfish. But you need to learn how to be less selfish, especially when it comes to getting laid. Practicing generosity in the bedroom can teach you a lot about humility.
You’re not in a porno. If this was a porno, you’d have a director telling you what to do. You’d also have a chance at being the star, which means all of the attention would directed on you. But this isn’t a porno, so share the damn wealth.
You’re not having sex with a hooker. If you want to pay for your services, then you make it all about you, and it wouldn’t make much of a difference. But the fact of the matter is that you’re not with a hooker. You’re with someone who wants to have just as much as you are, so allow them that.
It’s the right thing to do. Come on. You should know better. You’re with someone, trying to show them a good time. Don’t hog all the fun and keep all of the attention directed straight at you. That’s not fun for anybody.
You should be proud of your capabilities. When you’re not sexually generous, it may give off the impression that you don’t have a lot to offer. So, for god’s sake, prove yourself. Steal the show if you have to. Just keep it mutual.
It’s the generous thing to do. Being sexually generous in the bedroom comes down to the fact that it’s what you know, deep down, you need to do. Just follow your gut. If you feel even a little guilty for not sharing the wealth, you’re probably doing something wrong.
You. How generous are you in bed? Let us know.
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