Anonymous. “First let me say I grew up in a very religious area so 'being gay' wasn't even mentioned unless it was to say that all gay people die of AIDS and burn in hell because they ‘chose' to be that way. I didn't choose to be gay so in my naive mind I was straight.
I would date girls but I was never sexually attracted to them (I thought I was, but never understood why other guys went absolutely nuts over women, I thought they were just overreacting).
Kissing disgusted me and I couldn't understand why people liked it. Sex was even worse. Not only was it pretty difficult to get aroused but I felt dirty and disgusting afterwards with a lot of guilt and shame. (Probably how if a straight guy were to get fucked by another guy would feel). I would avoid it whenever possible which obviously makes the girl feel like shit. In my head I rationalized it as 'just not finding the right girl yet', but deep down I knew it was something else, although I blocked that something else out of my mind.”
I would date girls but I was never sexually attracted to them (I thought I was, but never understood why other guys went absolutely nuts over women, I thought they were just overreacting).
Kissing disgusted me and I couldn't understand why people liked it. Sex was even worse. Not only was it pretty difficult to get aroused but I felt dirty and disgusting afterwards with a lot of guilt and shame. (Probably how if a straight guy were to get fucked by another guy would feel). I would avoid it whenever possible which obviously makes the girl feel like shit. In my head I rationalized it as 'just not finding the right girl yet', but deep down I knew it was something else, although I blocked that something else out of my mind.”
Anonymous. "Thankfully I eventually moved away from the town I was raised in and slowly started to accept that I wasn't attracted to women at all, and that guys who I would find myself oddly and intensely attracted to for no reason weren't guys that I just admired, or wish I looked like, they were crushes. I felt extremely stupid for being so foolish for so long but realized thats what religious brainwashing does to you. Heck even in public high school we were taught that gay was a choice (its not if anyone has any doubts) so it never crossed my mind I was gay.
Once I accepted that about myself and started dating men my entire world changed. I finally understood why people loved kissing and intimacy and I was basically finally living the teenage and early 20s years I missed out on."
Once I accepted that about myself and started dating men my entire world changed. I finally understood why people loved kissing and intimacy and I was basically finally living the teenage and early 20s years I missed out on."
User “iaro.” "I gave it a shot out of curiosity. The biggest turnoff was the softness and gentleness I guess. I like strong hands and muscle. It was like having sex with an elf or something.”
User “brizzle27.” "It was ok. I wasn't completely disgusted or anything like that. It didn't seem to dry out like a butt can do during a long session, so I guess it's more convenient. I'm pretty sure it was mediocre for both of us. I could only c*m when I was hitting it from behind (that should have been a sign) and she turned out to be a lesbian.”
User “tsim12345.” "My dad is gay but he was married to my mom because he was in denial, and wanted a family. My mom is the only woman he has ever slept with and he said it was 'like eating your favorite food at the wrong temperature, like cold spaghetti or warm cheesecake.’"
User “joeydball.” "I did everything short of actual intercourse with a couple of different girls. It wasn't difficult, but I never wanted to do it. I think it helped that they were girls that I was dating and I genuinely did like them as friends. I'd just focus on the sensations and try to not think about anything else.
The only part that was hard was anything with a vagina. They've always kind of grossed me out.”
The only part that was hard was anything with a vagina. They've always kind of grossed me out.”
User “Publicagainstviolins.” "Had sex with a handful of girls before I came out.
It was alright: I was always able to c*m, though I usually had to think of guys to get there. F*cking a p*ssy isn't that different from fucking an a**hole, just more spongy.
Oddly enough, I thought boobies were a lot of fun. Guys give way better head though.”
It was alright: I was always able to c*m, though I usually had to think of guys to get there. F*cking a p*ssy isn't that different from fucking an a**hole, just more spongy.
Oddly enough, I thought boobies were a lot of fun. Guys give way better head though.”
User “Nukgci.” "It was pretty difficult. I had to turn off the lights to even get hard. She even smelled wrong. Not bad, just girly and wrong. Anyway, she laid there and I closed my eyes and had to concentrate very hard on tuning out all the noise she was making and just think about guys until I finally managed to make myself c*m.”
User “abithungary.” "First time I was 17, did not enjoy kissing her, and barely did any foreplay. I could only do the actual intercourse for 5 minutes because I got bored and I couldn't stay hard. At the time, I told myself 'Oh guess I'm just not that attracted to her.’
Second girl, we were both drunk, and I couldn't stay hard. Thought it was because I was drunk. We just cuddled instead.”
Second girl, we were both drunk, and I couldn't stay hard. Thought it was because I was drunk. We just cuddled instead.”
User “abithungary.” “Third was my ex when I was 19. Tried going down on her (first and only time I've ever done it) and hated it and I'm sure she hated it too lol. I think it was because of the emotional connection I was able to successfully stay hard and have sex with her continuously/get off but the sex was bad anyway (probably because I was a secret homo). I was unhappy in the relationship even though she was a beautiful awesome woman, and the relationship only lasted a month or so. Tried sucking a d*ck not too long after we broke up and haven't gone back to women since."
User “OurOhnlyHope.” "Does a threeway count?? I was with this amazing, kind, bear of a guy. He was coaching me through f*cking his girlfriend. It was a symphony of pleasure. At the end I came inside of her. Whoops. My bud patted me on the back and congratulated me. It was… different.”
User “threids.” "The one and only time I've slept with a woman was in a threesome I once had with a couple of coworkers. As devil's threesomes go, it was us two guys and a fellow female coworker. They both knew that I'm gay, and neither seemed to care, so I figured now was the time to finally get him into bed. Unfortunately, she apparently had been thinking the same of me and I ended up having vaginal sex with her while she performed oral on him.”
User “threids.” "In general, it wasn't terrible but I couldn't finish with her. The feeling is completely different. I'm sure it varies but her vagina was not nearly as tight as a man's *ss and I couldn't get off as I normally did. It's the masculinity of men that I find attractive and she had none of that. I went soft inside her, she thought I'd finished, and I've never told her I simply couldn't do it. Went home, jacked off to the new images of the guy in my head, and went to bed. 2/10. Do not recommend sex with women."
User “8bitbliss.” "I had no desire towards girls but I tried once when I was 16 because I thought you HAD to actually have sex with a girl to understand what was so great about it. And I did it and STILL didn't understand what was so great about it. It was kind of a chore, but on some level it was a little nice because she really seemed to be enjoying it. I thought maybe I was asexual or something. And then about a year after that I kissed a boy for the first time and I knew without a doubt that I wasn't asexual."
User “PeopleInMyHead.” "I'm not gay but I'm not straight either. So obviously I've never had this problem since I'm an equal opportunity employer. But my friend who is a gay man and has had sex with more than a few women always told me that it wasn't gross or a turn off. That when the sex was actually happening it feels like you are somewhere you don't belong and you just can't get comfortable. You just instinctually know that your penis shouldn't go there. He said it was a little bit more comfortable if he had anal sex with the girl, but they couldn't really do anal on him without using a toy and that definitely feels different.”
Anonymous. "A friend of mine's gay, and slept with a crazy house-mate of mine (Mentioned the story on here a while back IIRC) when they were both sh*tfaced. Said it was alright, but it reaffirmed he's definitely gay.
He did like having something to play with though in regards to her boobs. She kept trying to get him to agree to finish inside her, but he was sober enough not to agree to that, luckily."
He did like having something to play with though in regards to her boobs. She kept trying to get him to agree to finish inside her, but he was sober enough not to agree to that, luckily."
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