Want to sharpen up your game in the bedroom? Then you've come to the right place (read: article). Men and women have turned to Reddit to revel their best sex tips-- and fortunately for you, we've gathered what *we* considered the top 15. So, are you ready to be the best damn fornicator on the planet? If so, read on below...
User “P__Diddy.” "While she's on her back with her legs over your shoulders and your on top but kinda on your knees, use your thumb to softly rub her clitoris. I hope that makes sense. It works for my girlfriend.
Also, while going down on her put a finger or two in her and gently do the 'come here' thing with your fingers while licking her clitoris softly.
That stuff seems to work for me."
Also, while going down on her put a finger or two in her and gently do the 'come here' thing with your fingers while licking her clitoris softly.
That stuff seems to work for me."
User “liverspud.” "The neck, guys. Girls like the neck, guys like the neck. Everyone likes the neck. (No but really, it's super sensitive. Use that to your advantage.)"
User “krostenvharles.” "You don't always have to f*ck her hard. In fact sometimes that's not right to do. Sometimes you've got to make some love. And f*ckin' give her some smoochies too."
User “Rossingol.” "when doing missionary, if you put a pillow on her lower back or you lean towards her, using your forearms and elbows against the bed or floor or whatever, you can go way deeper and also grind against her clit as you drive into her p*ssy.
When you're doing regular missionary, you can also press her legs together, and do a more circular thrust that involves up and down motions rather than just in and out motions. Some girls like it deep, but a lot of the pleasurable points of a vagina are within the first couple inches of the entrance.
Come hither technique for fingering."
When you're doing regular missionary, you can also press her legs together, and do a more circular thrust that involves up and down motions rather than just in and out motions. Some girls like it deep, but a lot of the pleasurable points of a vagina are within the first couple inches of the entrance.
Come hither technique for fingering."
User “sigmaration.” "Don't be afraid to laugh together. Sex is a ridiculous and hilarious series of acts. The best sex I ever had was when my partner and I were not afraid to be goofy and silly and just enjoy each other."
User “QuickSkope.” "Guys: If she likes something, and she's into it: DON'T GO FASTER. Maintain the same pace and she will enjoy it more and more. Also, in any position, try to rub her clit while you're thrusting. If you get the rhythm right, she WILL appreciate it."
User “Butzz.” "Here's one that requires little to no effort or skill. Compliment, compliment, compliment. Your partner will feel better, more confident, comfortable and receptive."
User “Miamria.” "Eye contact. Not too creepy though, lol. I like watching his reaction anyways ;D"
User “Jux_.” "Be vocal. Say what you want, say what feels good, say what doesn't. Either communicate with your partner, or don't be upset when it's mediocre."
User “juniusgirl.” "If you love the person you're having sex with, incorporate your love as much as possible. Kisses, hand-holding, caressing. Treat that person like Bob Ross treats his paintings. Its like the cream/custard/jelly in the middle of a doughnut you thought was plain."
User “monoxide_lullaby.” "Foreplay. Foreplay foreplay foreplay foreplay foreplay.
Just like a guy needs to be hard, a girl needs to be wet. For both genders, pay attention to just behind the ear lobes, anywhere on the neck (most commonly the lower parts and the back), collarbones, wrists, and hip/thigh areas. I've also found that a soft breath in the ear while having your hands elsewhere works as well.
Use fingertips and nails. Light touches that can raise goosebumps are always a good thing. If you are ticklish or tickle your partner, good. Giggling like that can help lighten up the mood. Soft kisses are another good idea, especially if your planning on going down on the other person. Drag your tongue down their stomach, or whatever feels good to them."
Just like a guy needs to be hard, a girl needs to be wet. For both genders, pay attention to just behind the ear lobes, anywhere on the neck (most commonly the lower parts and the back), collarbones, wrists, and hip/thigh areas. I've also found that a soft breath in the ear while having your hands elsewhere works as well.
Use fingertips and nails. Light touches that can raise goosebumps are always a good thing. If you are ticklish or tickle your partner, good. Giggling like that can help lighten up the mood. Soft kisses are another good idea, especially if your planning on going down on the other person. Drag your tongue down their stomach, or whatever feels good to them."
User “sylinmino.” "Don't make it about your own pleasure--take pleasure in his/hers. That way, they get more into it when you're already into it, no one has to be the dead fish, and everyone has a good time!"
Anonymous. "My advice to guys going down on a girl is don't immediately start off flicking your tongue rapidly against the clit. It's far too much stimulation too early on and feels kind of weird and uncomfortable. Start slow, then build up to that. And listen to your partner."
User “Heatbeat.” "Always insist on either finger banging or performing oral on your girl before penetration. Even if they're begging for that ole D, you give her some prep work damnit. It a) preps for penetration, natural lubrication, all that shit, and b) teases the fuck outta her if she wanted penetration right away.
It's a win win, man.
Oh and for god sake do something with your hands if shes riding you. No don't pull out your cellphone and talk to your 'bros'. Play with her love melons, pull her hair (if shes into that). Just do something."
It's a win win, man.
Oh and for god sake do something with your hands if shes riding you. No don't pull out your cellphone and talk to your 'bros'. Play with her love melons, pull her hair (if shes into that). Just do something."
User “alfafasprouts.” "Sex is a celebration of the amazing things two people can do to and with one another. It's not a race. Slow down, and take your time. Touch, taste, tease. Laugh, love, rock the shit out each other, and worship in the fact that you're both alive and together at that moment.
Oh, and for f*ck's sake, use a condom!"
Oh, and for f*ck's sake, use a condom!"
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