Sizzlin’ Hot Ways To Speed Up Your Orgasm

When it comes to orgasms, sometimes you just don't have all night. From quickies to backseat hookups, there are a slew of times when reaching the big O in a matter of minutes is of the utmost importance. Sure, taking your long, sweet and sensual time to reach climax can be hot, but so can making it short, fast, and wild. Here, we take a look at 15 ways you can speed up your orgasm. 

Focus. Tune everything else out, and focus all the energy you have on your pleasure. Center all your attention on the many sensations, from his kisses to his fingers, and imagine the orgasm happening to you. Yes, seriously. Trust us — it works!

Text. Pre-heat your oven by sending you guy naught texts throughout the day. This is a good way to jumpstart both his anticipation and yours, and amp up the excitement for the next time you hang out.

Tease. The fastest way to orgasm? Tease yourself. Get thoroughly aroused before you slip between the sheets, so that there’s already blood circulating around your lad bits. Build up the anticipation until can you can literally feel yourself getting wet.

Verbal foreplay. Once you’re together, let him know how much you want him so he can reciprocate. Tell her what you plan to do to him, and have him do the same (hopefully he picks on the cues!). This sexy back-and-forth will get take you from 0 to 100 real quick.

Wear socks. Keep your socks on, ladies. A study done by Dutch researcher, Gert Holstege M.D. Ph.D, found that fuzz on your feet promote warmth and comfort, which are feelings associated with calming a woman's amygdala and prefrontal cortex — the brain areas responsible for anxiety, fear and danger signals. You might be thinking: So what? Well...

Wear socks. Before the team of researchers gave their participants socks, only 50 percent of them admitted to achieving orgasm. After being handed a pair of socks, however, a whopping 80 percent reported having an orgasm. Lesson: Wear socks.

Physical foreplay. Kissing, touching, caressing — you know the stuff. Do it all. While for dudes, foreplay is just a prelude, for women it’s pretty much necessary. So, make sure you and your man get through it — at least 20 minutes! — before the main event.

Oral. Well, duh. It isn’t a solid foreplay session if it does’t include a little tongue action downtown. Go down south on your guy, and have him return the favor — or vice versa. Whatever works for you both!

Dirty talk. Throw some in there! “For many women, words are aphrodisiacs — especially when those words are full of affirmations that fill her need to feel sexy,” Emily Morse, a doctor of human sexuality and host of the popular sex podcast Sex with Emily, tells Men’s Health.

Dirty talk. Morse’s main point? Penetration alone isn’t always going to cut it. “Sometimes it doesn’t matter how hard you’re thrusting or how long you’ve been going at it, a woman’s pleasure is not an exact science,” Morse tells Men’s Health. “For a woman to open up and experience sexual pleasure, she needs to feel desired by you.” So, make sure your guy sharpens up his repertoire.

Your C-spot. If you’re like most women, you probably need some clitoral stimulation to orgasm. Use your fingers to gently stimulate your C-spot, and encourage him to touch you too.

Positions. Contrary to popular belief, the position you’re in during sex does matter when it comes to your orgasms. So, which position’s the best? Girl-on-top can help to ensure an angle that will provide plenty of clitoral stimulation so that you can easier achieve orgasm.

Toys. Use ‘em! Vibrating gadgets and dildos can help your simulate your hot spots with minimal efforts. Not to mention, they can be used during foreplay and the main event!

Use lube.According to a study from Indiana University’s Center for Sexual Health Promotion, nearly 50 percent of women who have used lube say that it makes it easier to climax. So the more slippery the more orgasmic, apparently.

Kegel it. Rhythmically squeeze your pelvic floor muscles to literally pump more blood flow down below. Plus, when you engage in some kegels during intercourse, it slightly contracts your vagina, gripping whatever’s inside of it and increasing friction against your bits. Perfect.